I am sick of constantly seeing girls and guys on my dash talking about how sex is so unimportant and how they really are just looking for someone to cuddle with them and sex is just the icing on top of the cake basically. I think you’re all full of shit and are just scared to admit you love sex for fear of being judged or labeled a slut.

I am in a happy, healthy, and very loving relationship with my boyfriend and although we have a wonderful relationship in all aspects, sex is more than the icing on the cake. Sex is vital to a healthy relationship. It is something that I will never give up and I don’t care how it sounds. Every good relationship needs to have sex I think. The amount varies from couple to couple but there needs to be some sort of sexual element to your relationship for it to work. Simply my opinion.

Sex brings you closer to a person than any amount of cuddling can possibly do. It enables you to open up completely and let someone into the most intimate part of your life by doing the most exposed thing you can do to a person. To allow someone to see you naked up close and personal like that is going out on a limb and it involves a certain amount of trust in that person. For some people it requires a lot of trust, for some, it doesn’t require as much. But for me, I definitely would prefer it over cuddling.

If you love to cuddle that’s fine, but don’t go around saying its better than sex because nothing is. Except maybe chocolate. But that’s a big maybe lol